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Frequently Asked Questions

Before asking me a questions please view the following before to save both yourself and I time.


One last thing, if you are under the age of 17 please do not ask me for sex advice because I do not support children at such a young age having sex and will simply delete your messages. Sorry for the inconvenience. 

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my boyfriends blog: i-try-so-damn-hard


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1. I want to give my partner a Blow Job, but I want to be really good at it. Do you have any tips?

Well, my number one rule to giving a good blow job is: You have to love what you’re doing. You have to love sucking his dick. Simple as that.


Put his penis in your mouth and just suck it in and out and in and out. Get it SUPER WET with your saliva, spit on it. Suck on it a little but not too hard because it could hurt him. Lick the tip of his dick with your tongue and just swivel it around there for a bit. Try taking him all in, choke a little, guys will get super turned on when you choke on their dick. While your sucking him play with his balls, massage them in your hand, he will LOVE that. If your comfortable enough move down to his balls and suck them because he’ll love that even more. Lick it up and down, get dirty with it.


It can be kind of uncomfortable at first because it feels weird putting all of that in your mouth but don’t hate it. I used to hate it, but one time I just decided I wanted to do it so good to him and I told him not to grab my head or force it in me and if he did that I would stop. I told him if he just let me do my thing that I would do it so good and I did. Now I love sucking his dick, I love to make him hard, I love to make him feel fantastic, I love to make him moan and most of all I love to make him cum (;


Oh and last tip about giving him a blow job, when he’s going to cum let him cum on your boobs or stomach. When you want to get him REALLY TURNED on or want to get REALLY NASTY let him cum in your mouth. I MUST warn you though, it doesn’t taste the best at first and sometimes it can be too much. You’ll learn to love it though.


After you let him cum in your mouth just swallow it, it’s not so bad (;  

2. What methods do you use to prevent pregnancy? 


The contraceptive I use are condoms (will be on birth control later), but for right now it’s condoms and adding along the withdrawal method at the same time. I advise everyone to use some sort of contraceptive, just to protect yourself from unwanted pregnancy, STD’s and STI’s. 


3. I’m a virgin and I’m going to have sex for the first time. How can I make it less painful for me?

Sex for the first time can be painful, but isn’t always painful for everyone. My best advice for you is to just relax take couple of deep breaths, have your partner indulge in a lot of foreplay to make you aroused as possible and use lubricant if needed. Make sure they’re gentle with you as first and are aware of your feelings.


In being a virgin make sure you are either or birth control or are using a condom, any form of contraceptive is better than none.


4. What is the difference between “cuming” and having an orgasm?


The literary term of “cuming” and “orgasm” is the same which is, a person reaching their point of climax. However, women do experienced different intensities of an orgasm. The way one experiences orgasm may differ depending on which part of the vagina is being stimulated. Women can experience clitoral orgasm and internal orgasm as a result of stimulation of the G-spot. The intensities of the orgasm may also vary with the emotional tie behind the sexual intercourse. If a woman is having sexual intercourse with her boyfriend, husband or soulmate then they might experience a more earth shattering and intense orgasm because of the love they have for said person.


5. When my boyfriend and I are having sex I have never had an orgasm, is something wrong with me?


There is nothing wrong with not being able to orgasm because all women orgasm through various sexual activities. As in question four it states, Women can experience clitoral orgasms and internal orgasms as a result of stimulation of the G-spot. Ask your partner to rub your clitoris while having sex or you can even rub it yourself. Also, you should try different positions that stimulate your G-spot such as: Missionary, Cowgirl or Doggy Style.


This is the best I could find: http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_400/430_g-spot-positions.html

6. I’m currently the age under the age of 17 and I want to have sex for first time, but I’m scared. Can you help me?

No.


7. How can I turn my boyfriend or sexual parter on?


Try lots of different things until you get to know your partner. Nibble their ear, kiss their neck, suck on their neck, touch their inner thighs, talk dirty to them (refer to question 8), run your hand over their jeans in their private ares, lightly smack their butt. There are many other things that you can do, but with time you will learn what your parter likes and will be able to turn then on in to time ;)

8. Can you please teach me how to talk dirty?

Okay, so when I talk dirty to my boyfriend it’s usually to turn him on. There are different ways I go about this depending what kind of mood he’s in.


Whenever I ask him to “do it with me” (have phone sex) and he doesn’t want to I just say “Fine, I’ll do it by myself” then I start to make sexy moaning noises (that really turns him on). After about a couple of minutes of that I’m usually playing with myself by then.


Here are a compilation of things I will say from there: 

  • Mmmm…babe you make my pussy so wet
  • fuck me, please
  • I just want your face in between my legs
  • let me ride that big dick of yours
  • you like my tight pussy, right babe?
  • Do you want to lick me up clean?
  • Just slurp it up babe
  • I want you to grab my hips and slam that big hard dick in my little tight pussy
  • fuck me like you’ve never fucked me before
  • You want my pussy? It’s all fucking yours babe
  • Ohhhhh Dadddyyyy fuck meeeee


There’s really A LOT more that I can think of/say when I’m in the moment. Seriously just about everything comes out of my mouth. The way I like to explain it to people is “If you’re embarrassed to say it out loud, then that usually something dirty you should say to him” (; 

9. Have you ever listened to music while having sex? What are some good songs to listen or play during sex?


So here’s a list of artists music to make love/have sex to. Know that not all of these artists songs are good baby making music, but it’s easier for myself to help you with just giving you artists name rather than going song for song (that would take really long). Also, with giving you their names you’re free to listen to a lot of their songs and see which ones you like better and what is more your style.


Artists (songs will be included for certain artists):

  • Boyz II Men
  • Brian McKnight
  • Usher - Nice and Slow, Daddy’s Home, That’s What It’s Made For, There Goes My Baby, Making Love (Into The Night).
  • Drake (He doesn’t really have a lot of romantic making love songs but his beats and music alone is great to set a steady beat.)
  • Birthday Sex (For your birthday obviously)
  • Joe
  • Genuine
  • J. Holiday - Bed
  • Mario
  • Chris Brown
  • Trey Songz


This isn’t the end of the list but it’s all I can think of for now so enjoy and if you would like for me to add to the list then just let me know in a message.

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10. Can you please give me some tips on how to shave down there?


Before you start to shave, trim the hair with a manicuring scissor. Next, take a warm bath or shower to soften the remaining pubes so they are easier to remove. (Covering the area for a few minutes with a warm, wet washcloth will also do the trick.) Then, smear on some shaving gel or lotion, but be careful not to get any inside your vagina.


When you’re ready to start shaving, get into a comfortable position. You can lie on a towel with your legs spread if your guy is helping you out; otherwise, stand in the shower with one leg on the edge of the tub. Make sure you use a new, i.e., sharp, razor and hold the area taut with the hand you don’t use to shave so the razor can glide easily. If you have sensitive skin, you’ll lower the chances of getting ingrown hairs or razor bumps if you shave in the direction that the hair grows. You’ll also have to figure out how much hair you want to remove. You can simply tidy up the region, leave a landing strip or go completely bald.


11. My vagina doesn’t look as nice as those in the pictures you post, is there something wrong with mine?

There is nothing wrong with you, you are perfect and know this always. All vaginas are different and different sizes. Photographers just seem to take pictures of what is “perfect or looks good” in their eyes. Just as the media and society does, you should not let this affect you though. 


I promise you are beautiful <3


12. I’m a virgin and I want to have sex, but I’m scared.


If you are scared you are most likely not ready to have sex. You need to trust the person you are going to lose your virginity too and love them. You have to know if they will make it all about you since it is your first time and will make you feel as comfortable as possible.


You could also be scared because of pregnancy, as long as you are using some sort of contraceptive then you should be okay.


13. Can you give me other good sex blogs to follow?

These are the people who stand out to me or I reblog a lot from or are good friends with (: 


14. My partner and I have tried a lot of sex positions, can you suggest any good ones?

List of sex positions:  Here


15. My partner and I have tried a lot of things in bed, but want to try new things can you suggest any?

Questions like these are very vague and I hate to answer them because I don’t know what anybody and their partners have done. I can’t really suggest much because I don’t know the comfort level of you or your partner. Please, just turn to google for something like this because you and your partner know each other a lot better than I do. If you ask this question or something similar, it will be deleted.


16. I don’t know how to “ride” my boyfriend, can you give me tips? 

Girl On Top positions can be found: Here. As for tips, Find a comfortable position for your legs. Have your partner help to set the pace. You can either pop your butt in and out, go up and down, or circle your hips. 

Credit: Sexual-Feelings


17. I don’t think I’m masturbating right, can you help me?

Tips for masturbating (females and males): Here


18. Can I submit a picture of myself or do you posts pictures of your followers that submit pictures to you?

NO, the submit box is set to where I only allow text submissions and the text submissions are for longer questions that won’t fit in the ask.


19. I had sex and we didn’t use protection, could I be pregnant?
Don’t even think about asking this question. Take a pregnancy test or go to the doctor. 


There are more questions to come as I see if people keep asking the similar questions.